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It’s basketball - but not as you know it. We play to escape this overly controlled world where everyone seems to get upset at the slightest inconvenience and the smallest rule break. And play to 'be kind' - to share a creative dance of connection and flow - to get a result before the uncontrollable gets out of hand. And We laugh. It’s a different way to improve that we call Games Coaching.

• 8pm to 9pm 
• It  is at Sportspace Longdean, https://goo.gl/maps/fuLVP231RfcRCvXo6. The entrance is not via Longdean school. There is a separate entrance that you can  only find by just putting the post code in - and nothing else - HP3 8JH -  or it takes you the main school entrance. The easiest way is to use  “What3Words” and they are ///guard.forks.fries
• 16+ - Mixed - League Level - club and no club players are welcome.
• The easiest way to pay us using the app which you can get by going to  your phone's app store, search for wix.com app called Spaces. Download.  And then enter this code QTKFDS
• Don't let a lack of money stop you from coming. We have free tickets.  Contact jon.thorne@LifeSkills21.club you don't need to explain - He will  just give you the code.

Any questions contact the help centre

A different way to improve

Games Coaching is a different way to improve - because it's about getting a result in the uncontrollable parts of a game - and not about improving the ability to control the controllable - which is commonly done by many sports coaches.

• The important parts of life happen in the uncontrollable.
• Competitive games are won by how we deal with the uncontrollable parts of the game.

This  is why it's a good idea to play games with a Games Coach and learn to  be less anxious when we can't control what is happening and relax into  agile, fluid, creative, joyful, entertaining, flowing thinkers and  movers who find different ways to get different results - before the  uncontrollable gets out of hand.

A different way to compete

Competition  is not victory. it's a way to progress. A journey of progress always comes before winning. We don't set our minds on the outcome of winning because it triggers both FEAR and HOPE in most of us. FEAR we will fail and HOPE we will win. FEAR stops us try different ways and HOPE makes us give up when we don't get what we want. We become motionless - both fearing and hoping for change. We want to avoid this. We play games to create a journey of improvement - a sense of moving away from where we are now. A feeling of flow. It's left foot, right foot, lift ourselves out of the details - see the bigger picture - see space between obstacles - and left foot, right foot, through that space. Breathe and repeat.

A different type of team

Games Coaching creates fluid thinking teams that ripple. As the first player moves, the next player takes into account what the first player did and moves, the 3rd player does the same, and so on through the team in a constantly flowing rippling of movement that opens and closes space to flow through. It is beautiful to watch. Even when we stumble, fall, backtrack and all the evidence tells us we are failing - we are always moving forward. Teams that are set up to control the controllable move at the same time - as planned - everyone expecting each other to be in a certain place at a certain time. It’s more attritional than beautiful. These rigid teams win when they have enough athletic dominance to control a game and lose if they don't. Often boring to watch.

Games Coaching Explained

Games Coaches generate a dynamic set of obstacles that impact what players want to do. Players are stopped from trying to control the obstacles - and helped to lift themselves out of the detail - to see the wider context - the bigger picture of what is going on around them - and flow through the space between obstacles to discover different ways to get different results when nobody knows what is going happen - before the uncontrollable gets out of hand.

The one guiding principle - 'Be Kind'

The principle of 'being kind' lowers any anxiety we have about not being in control of what is happening which makes it easier to relax into being agile, fluid, creative, joyful, entertaining, flowing thinkers and movers able to get a result in the uncontrollable before the uncontrollable gets out of hand. 

There are 3 ways many of us try to control others, which Games Coaching stops.

1. We use superior knowledge of the details to make others do as we say.

2. We control who is seen to be the weakest by deflecting blame onto others.

3. We use the fact we are bigger, stronger, and faster to make others do what we want them to do.

Only those who always seek to control are excluded. We are diverse, not inclusive.

What players

• "They are fun. They are stress free. Jon - has a way of  teaching  that I don't feel I am are being told what to do. I am  encouraged to  make my own choices and then supported with the decisions  I make. There  is no wrong decision. Only learning opportunities. Jon  always finds a  way to make feedback constructive and positive to help  me make my own  evaluations about my performance and how I can improve.  He is supportive  while pushing you to always be better and reach  maximum potential".

Any questions contact the help centre